UND Graduates Encouraged to Reflect on Self-Worth and Leadership

On December 19, 2023, graduates of the University of North Dakota (UND) received a thought-provoking message during their commencement ceremonies. Jill Cholewa, a distinguished alumna and retired business owner, challenged them with a crucial question: If they were an employer, would they hire themselves? This inquiry aimed to prompt personal reflection rather than serve as a critique from a potential employer.

Cholewa highlighted the importance of self-assessment as graduates prepare to enter a competitive job market that seeks “genuine, purpose-driven leadership.” She emphasized that impactful leadership does not require a formal title. “You have all the tools you need right here, in your intellect and your character,” she stated, encouraging students to recognize their potential.

The ceremonies took place at the Chester Fritz Auditorium, where three sessions were held to accommodate a total of 856 graduates—545 undergraduates and 311 graduate students. President Andrew Armacost welcomed attendees, acknowledging the inclement weather conditions and celebrating the resilience of the graduating class. “Today is a day of celebration,” he said, urging the audience to applaud the efforts of their peers.

Cholewa, who graduated from UND in 1977 and 1979, has a strong connection to the university. She is not only a past recipient of the Sioux Award for Distinguished Achievement and Leadership but also co-founder of a lumber business in California. Alongside her husband, she has contributed to various scholarships at UND and established three endowments for different programs, including the Nistler College of Business and Public Administration.

During her address, Cholewa presented graduates with a series of reflective questions. Among them were: Would you hire you based on your curiosity? Would you hire the version of you that learns from mistakes? And would you hire you based on your ability to collaborate with others? These questions were designed to evoke introspection about their readiness for the workforce.

Cholewa also referenced eight key principles for success as outlined by actor Denzel Washington, which include hard work, patience, and a positive attitude. She underscored the significance of these attributes in achieving personal and professional goals.

In addition to Washington’s principles, Cholewa identified three essential qualities for lasting success: the willingness to listen, the courage to be vulnerable, and a sense of servitude. She urged graduates to become active listeners and to create environments where others feel comfortable sharing their ideas. “The greatest leaders see their roles as one of service to others,” she remarked.

Cholewa concluded her address by reminding graduates of the value of their degrees and the impact they can have on their communities. “The real value of your degree lies in what you do with it to improve the lives of your colleagues, your community, and the world,” she said.

She encouraged the audience to reflect on their growth over the past four years, urging them to trust in their abilities as they transition into the next phase of their lives. By questioning their worth, she emphasized, graduates can navigate their paths toward growth, integrity, and excellence.