106-Year-Old Nurse Donates Husband’s Bullet to Pearl Harbor Museum

A poignant chapter in the history of World War II has emerged with the donation of a bullet to the Pearl Harbor National Memorial Museum by Alice Beck Darrow, a 106-year-old former nurse. This bullet, which once resided in her late husband’s heart, symbolizes survival, love, and sacrifice amid one of America’s most significant military events.

Alice Beck Darrow’s journey began in 1942 at the Mare Island Naval Hospital in California, where she first met her husband, Dean Darrow. He was a sailor who had survived the devastating attack on the USS West Virginia on December 7, 1941. The ship was hit by six torpedoes and two bombs during the assault, resulting in the tragic loss of 106 crew members. Although Dean survived the initial bombing, he was shot while trying to board a rescue boat.

Months later, doctors discovered a bullet lodged in his heart, necessitating surgery. Before the operation, Dean asked Alice if she would go out with him if he survived. After he pulled through, they were married that same year. The bullet became a cherished reminder of their bond and the circumstances that united them.

The couple raised four children in California and remained married for nearly 50 years until Dean’s passing in 1991. Alice held onto the bullet for decades, preserving its significance in her life.

On September 18, 2025, Alice Beck Darrow made a heartfelt decision to donate the bullet to the Pearl Harbor National Memorial Museum. This date coincided with her stay in Honolulu as part of a 28-day cruise on Holland America’s Westerdam. Alice described the moment as “deeply emotional,” expressing her belief that the bullet belonged to those who served and sacrificed during the war.

“Holding onto the bullet all these years meant a great deal, but it truly belongs to those who can understand its significance,” she stated. “I knew it was the right decision.”

The captain of the Westerdam, Vincent Smit, noted that Holland America was honored to assist Alice in completing this meaningful journey. Alice is one of the last living links to the events at Pearl Harbor, and her contributions as a nurse were recognized in 2024.

Reflecting on her donation, she remarked, “I think Dean would feel that returning the bullet to Pearl Harbor is the right thing to do. It honors so many, and I know he would agree it’s the right place for it.”

Alice Beck Darrow’s story serves as a powerful reminder of the personal sacrifices made during the war and the enduring legacy of love and service. As she continues to share her memories, her donation ensures that the story of her husband and countless others will not be forgotten.